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find self-belonging, and heal primal trauma.

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Step inside The Resilience Project where adoptees find belonging and primal trauma healing. This is your space to build real connections with other adoptees and gain access to free resources to support your healing journey.

Hello! I'm Julie

Trauma-Informed Adoptee Coach

I've been coaching men and women for more than 15 years to overcome addictive behaviors and heal the primal wound of abandonment. I created Coming Home to Self, with a mission dedicated to helping adoptees heal.

After my own birth mother tried to abort me twice, I found myself frozen in an unconscious trauma response for decades until I found the power of somatic trauma healing.

Now I'm using somatics, nervous system regulation, personal experience and a Masters in Counseling to help other adult adoptees find their way out of their own trauma and into a life of radical self-belonging.

How We Guide

Healing The Primal Wound

Revelation: A 7 Day Guided Journey to Self-Discovery for Adoptees

Dive into my 7 innovative phases that are meticulously curated to guide you through emerging from the fog of primal trauma in just 7 days. It's time to uncover who you were born to be.

Restoring Self: The Pathway To Self-Belonging for Adoptees


A sense of belonging and acceptance like never before with my signature 7 phase program created specifically for adoptees ready to discover their self-belonging.

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Join the Coming Home To Self Community and stay connected as you begin your adoptee healing journey.

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